In a groundbreaking collaboration with the Center for Research and Action towards Sustainable Peace and Development https://craspd.com/ (CRASPD) and Action Africa, 21 students completed a transformative three-day (30 September - 2 October 2024), training titled "Listening to Connect—an Introduction to Nonviolent Communication (NVC)." This initiative aims to enhance interpersonal communication skills, fostering trust and mutual support within the community. The training was held at Protestant University of Rwanda (PUR) Huye Campus.
The workshop introduced participants to essential concepts of Nonviolent Communication, developed by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg (www.cnvc.org). Topics included understanding needs and feelings, exploring the origins of conflict and violence, practicing empathic listening, and mastering honest expression. Participants learned to observe without judgment and formulate clear, connecting requests. The training equipped participants with tools to navigate conflicts and misunderstandings in their families, academic environments, and workplaces.
Participants explored different concepts of Nonviolent Communication
Throughout the training, participants engaged in practical exercises, allowing them to practice authentic communication with friends, relatives, and peers. In addition to that, the hands-on approach enabled them to share experiences in pairs and small groups, creating a supportive environment for learning and growth.
Discovering needs behind feelings, and strategies to meet those needs
NVC is offered as course in the Department of Peace and Conflict Studies, however after recognizing the growing need for effective communication within the community, the Department decided to extend the reach of NVC beyond its curriculum. This initiative invites staff, students from various faculties, and members of the surrounding communities to participate in future trainings and workshops, promoting a "language of life" that encourages compassionate dialogue.
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This training session was
spearheaded by Dismas Nsengiyaremye, an alumnus of the University and a
dedicated advocate for peace and conflict transformation. Since 2019, he has
gained extensive experience in designing and implementing community capacity
development programs. We are grateful to co-facilitators Linda Balola (PUR
graduate in Peace Studies) and Gad IRANSUBIJE (student in Peace Studies at PUR),
who contributed their expertise to ensure a comprehensive learning experience.
The successful completion of
this training not only empowers participants but also stands as a testament to
the University’s commitment to cultivating a peaceful and supportive community.
By equipping individuals with the tools to communicate nonviolently, the
initiative aims to foster a culture of understanding and collaboration, vital
for sustainable peace and development.
As a way forward, enthusiastic participants and facilitators formed a practice group that will meet twice a week. This group will continue to hone their NVC skills by sharing experiences, challenges, and opportunities encountered since the training.
